My father was taken into heart surgery tonight in Kalamazoo during a visit with his grandson, Bo.
Posted by Ming in Family
February 16, 2009 at 12:44 am
Ming -I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I will keep him, your family and you in my thoughts.
Regardless of whether you can manage the transfer without help , please try not do it alone. I hope someone in Michigan can be there with you or two people can take you out of the equation.
February 16, 2009 at 1:51 am
Ming, Iam very sorry to hear about your father. I hope that he will be well. I will be thinking of you and praying for him. I do not feel that you should be alone when Doris comes to pick up Daisy. I hope with all that you have done for her, and will now be dealing with and going through because of your fathers current health that she can see it in her heart to see past herself and not give your heart more ache. The sooner that Daisy is back in her arms and Doris is on her way home to the life that she has chosen, the better. Please take care of yourself. Marie
February 16, 2009 at 3:11 am
Ming..I just thought of a possible solution if you are unable to arrange someone to be with you or have 2 others take your place. A Petsmart or similar store where they allow pets would be a good public facility for the transfer. The transfer time should be done on your schedule.
My thoughts are with you.
Ming I’m So sorry to hear about your dad-Ihope he is well soon. I’m also sorry to hear whats going on with Doris. After all you’ve done and now be treated like this. Obviously a much more indepth issue involved than we all thought. Have someone with you when you do this enchange.
February 16, 2009 at 3:34 am
Dear Ming. I am so upset to hear about your father. I know that there is a huge worry on your mind and am sorry that you have to deal with Doris’s issues now on top of that. My prayers are going out for your father and I hope he has a speedy and full recovery. Please take care of yourself and post when you are able. I wish I lived closer so as to be of help to you. Hugs, Margy Hope
February 16, 2009 at 4:19 am
I agree with Pat. I feel that a public place like a petsmart would be the best place for Doris to pick Daisy up. And even if you go that route, I still think it would be best if someone was with you. With cell phone in hand just in case, there is a scene. Hopefully not. Again, please be careful. Marie
February 16, 2009 at 6:49 am
I can’t even believe what has transpired here.
At a time like this, I can not understand how Doris can possibly do this. I will pray for your father & for you…please be safe. Do not meet Doris at your home — she is very unstable. Who knows what she and her boyfriend are capable of?
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this after all the sacrifices you’ve made to help her.
February 16, 2009 at 2:05 pm
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Please know that I am thinking about you and your Dad and sending healing thoughts your way.
My Dad had bypass surgery back in the late 80’s, so I know how frightening it is! Please keep us posted!
February 16, 2009 at 6:59 pm
Ming, I am praying for your father and I do hope the surgery went well. I know how stressful it can be to have a loved one in such a situation.
I guess that by now Daisy is with Doris. I do hope that Doris can get some help for herself…and I think Daisy would be much better off (still) with someone else until Doris gets her life together. I will be praying for Daisy’s safety as well and her health…and for you.
February 18, 2009 at 9:57 pm
All your kind thoughts and prayers have been a great help to me. I believe in the power of positive energy and thought. When a community of people come together, miracles happen!
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